Ace of Cups in Love and Relationships

Description: The formation and use of positive emotions.

Interpretations
Upright Ace of Cups is one of the best tarot cards you can ever get in your reading. It is just full of positive emotions. For love and relationship situations, this is one tarot card that offers only good news. Love and friendship are the keywords attached to it. That is, the relationship is driven by passion, love, romance and all things positive. Even the balance between the two lovers is perfect.

Feeling wise, this tarot card can mean outpouring of great love especially in present situation.  I personally have seen that when this tarot card appears in the reading it signals the feelings being felt psychologically by the person in question. What I am trying to say here is that the Ace of Cups signals that your love interest is so much in love with you that he finds it difficult to hide it within himself. So he might find himself in a state of ecstasy and even do unintentional silly mistakes.

Apparently, if you are doing a reading to find out whether you have a future with a certain date or love interest and you end up with the Ace of Cups then rest assure yourself that yes you will definitely be in a very loving relationship with him. Otherwise, there will be a conversation between the two of you where both of you will be able express the love you have for each other.

Reversed Ace of Cups is taken as negative. Yes, it still means outpouring of emotions, but in sad version. The cup now is not only empty, but also upside down. This means the water which represents the intense positive emotions has got out of the relationship. So everything that makes a relationship perfect has disappeared. As for feelings, they are just not there. So your love interest does not really think about you romantically. This now brings us to the potential future with the date or your love interest. Unfortunately, that beautiful future is not going to blossom either. So you might need to head towards another direction.

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Two of Cups in Love and Relationships

Description: Two people coming together to give birth to a bond.

Interpretations
The most straightforward meaning for upright Two of Cups tarot card is unity. In a relationship situation, after a bad argument, this tarot card represents making up. Sure Page of Cups says the same, but what makes this specific card different from that one is that it has a healthy doze of maturity.

Interestingly, the making up process described by this does not always have to be physical in sense. As a matter of fact, this card has a tendency to only show the psychological state of the two lovers. They have simply forgotten about what went wrong and thus, they have once again started thinking positively about each other.

Additionally, if you are just dating a person casually then the appearance of the Two of Cups signals that this dating will develop into something bigger. There will be emotional attachment. Yet you must remember that the real commitment of a relationship does not have complete connection with Two of Cups. Two of you will share some romantic time with each other and this make a positive big difference in how you think about each other. A good keyword to sum it up is “growth”.

Reversed Two of Cups tarot card talks of things going sour in a relationship. The two people do not try to make up with each other. Thus, the argument stays intact.It is also possible to expect some yelling and cursing to take place. Moreover, a temporary break up can end up looming. If not an argument then Two of Cups reversed represents the bareness in the relationship. The two people do not get along well and thus, they feel no love for each other. As for casual dates, in the same way, reversed Two of Cups tarot card signals that they will not see anything meaningful in the future because the two people do not have enough chemistry to create a romantic reaction.

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Three of Cups in Love and Relationships

Description: Seeing positive outcome.

Interpretations
Three of Cups tarot card is all about fulfillment taking place in physical state. For relationship situations, this can mean great moments being felt by the lovers. Apparently, Three of Cups can signify a new development in the relationship. Did you two work towards any certain goals? If yes, then the tarot card says that you would definitely reach them. Now this can actually be either positive or negative. For instance, if you have planned on marrying in the future then this is what you are going to get. But if you two planned on breaking up then this is will become the reality. Good news is that somehow you will see it turning into something positive like opening your door for that one soul mate you have been yearning for.

Three of Cups does not have proper connection with love and romance. It actually goes best with friendship. So if you are thinking of just dating then appearance of this tarot card says that you will totally enjoy it and the men will find you attractive. They will just feel that you are a very fun loving person. Yet instead of taking you as a girlfriend, they will ask you to be their friend. In short, this tarot card does not represent a long term relationship.

Reversed Three of Cups is one of the most negative tarot cards, for it represents third person in the relationship or your partner being unstable with you. The keyword that best goes with this tarot card is cheating. Yes, it is possible that he has another lady and if this is not the case then Three of Cups reversed implies that there is hardly any happiness and fun in your relationship and thus, one of you is wondering whether it is best to break up or not. This tarot card in reversed position also heralds that you and your lover will not be able to reach the planned goals.

For casual dating sessions, the Three of Cups reversed signifies absence of the same fun and happiness. It is also possible that your dates have multiple options. But they choose to  start a relationship with none of them. Interestingly, this tarot card reversed can also imply that you will enjoy your date with certain someone, but it is possible that you will never seem him ever again. Also its appearance can signal that you will be not able to go on date anytime soon because you have responsibilities in other areas of your life.

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Four of Cups in Love and Relationships

Description: You are finding it difficult to accept the good things in your life.

Interpretations
Too much of something at one point becomes tedious and this is what the Four of Cups represents. In the same way, in relationship situations, there is just too much love and happiness, but one of the lovers is either too bored with it or is expecting something more than this in a shocking manner. So you can actually expect him to say:

“We need to go on a trip.”
“You are trying too hard.”
“Your cooking skill is deteriorating.”
“You never buy me anything.”
“I thought it was your job to water the plants.”

Apparently, there are many other meanings attached to this tarot card. For instance, this tarot card can indicate that you know exactly how you should be running a relationship, but somehow you have decided to not follow them.

Four of Cups tarot card can also signify an unstable relationship where a traditional commitment does not exist. That is, you have been seeing someone and you want him to commit to you. As a matter of fact, you are very helpful and loving to this man. Like a therapist, you listen to his problems and even when necessary you offer him sex. He, on the other hand, enjoys all of it, but does not show any interest in starting a long term relationship with you. Worse than this is the fact that he always seems to come up with excuses to avoid the conversation about it. Additionally, this tarot card represents a time when you have many options, but you choose not to date anyone at all.

Now if you are doing the reading to find out what your love interest thinks of you and you end up with the Four of Cups then it means that he is too full of himself and thus he does not take time to see the real you. So there is a possibility that he feels that he deserves someone better than you.

Reversed Four of Cups breaks the tantrum in the relationship. The feeling of boredom is gone and thus the two lovers once again enjoy each other’s company. Otherwise, it is possible for them to break up and make room for others to come their ways. This can also be the case for an unstable relationship. You have finally understood that the man in question is not right for you. So you stop giving too much to him. It is also possible for you to charter new waters.

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Five of Cups in Love and Relationships

Description: There is too much sadness.

Interpretations
Upright Five of Cups is another very straightforward tarot card. Its keyword is sorrow. Now this can be related to anything in the relationship. But what is certain here is that one of the lovers has been hurt very deeply.

Interestingly, this tarot card can also represent the guilt trip that occurs after the end of the relationship. I once did a reading for a girl whose boyfriend just out of the blue broke up with her because he started to think that things were getting too boring for him with her. In the beginning they had a very loving relationship and they both knew that they were perfect for each other.  Now in the reading, the tarot cards came out all negative which signaled how badly he was thinking about the relationship.  It disappointed her and thus she asked me whether he would ever miss her at all. To know this, I had to do another reading of single card to check how he would feel about her after a month and basically that is when things turned out to be very positive. Now the tarot card that appeared was Five of Cups. What this implied to us was that after a month he would finally get some common sense to figure out what he had lost. Thus, he would miss her greatly.

Reversed Five of Cups tarot card heralds that the sorrow is over. The two lovers have reconciled and so they are happy. However, if the relationship is over then the reversed Five of Cups implies that the person is in the process of getting out of the memory of his past relationship.

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Six of Cups in Love and Relationships

Description: Thoughts of beautiful things that happened in the past.

Interpretations
Upright Six of Cups talks of innocence. Notice the two children present in the tarot card. At face value they might imply to you that your present time in the relationship is full of happiness. Unfortunately, this is not the case! Actually, Six of Cups is the only tarot card that does not have any link to present situation. It deals more with thoughts. Perhaps, the honeymoon period in your relationship is over and you are just looking back in time when you and your lover were sharing great happiness together. It is also possible that nothing has changed in your relationship, but you or your lover spend time thinking about how you two fell in love or met with each other. Overall, the main keyword for Six of Cups is the positive past. So it emphasizes, “Those days were so beautiful”.

Many tarot cards believe that the appearance of Six of Cups signals that your past lover would come back in your life to start over everything. But from my readings and inquirer’s results, I have come to the conclusion that this is never the case. Yes, he might come back, but it will be only for a few days and the reason behind this will be the memories he made with you. That is, he will be moved by them and thus he will contact you to know how you have been doing, but he will not offer you any relationship. In some cases, he might actually hope to start over with you, but the circumstances will be such that you are the one who will reject him.  In short, you two will not have any romantic future with each h other.

Reversed Six of Cups still deals with memories of the past, but this time they are bitter. There is nothing good that comes to mind and so these memories will only cause the lover to get angry or start a new argument in the relationship. For the aftermath of the breakup this is a terrible tarot card to get because it implies hard feelings. The beautiful memories are replaced by the bitter ones. So the anger about the ex lover continues.

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Seven of Cups in Love and Relationships

Descriptions: You are giving into the fantasy.

Interpretations
Seven of Cups in the beginning can seem very complicated to interpret, for it is linked to multiple meanings, but remember they all end with the keyword, “lost”. Now when, in relationship readings Seven of Cups appears evaluate all the issues that you have with your partner. I actually received this tarot card as a warning in a reading I did for a controlling woman. The problem she had was that her relationship was always going through storm because she was not compatible with her freedom loving boyfriend. Just too many times they broke up, but every time she missed him she chased him with the offer, “Come, have sex with me”. In short, she used seduction to bring him back. It seemed to always work for her, but somehow she never found real happiness and commitment from him. This is what Seven of Cups really represented for her. They were together just for the sex. The lesson to take from this story is that we should see Seven of Cups as a wake-up call, for what looks desirable today might turn into poison tomorrow.

If you have still not understood the signal of the Seven of Cups then let me summarize it to you in clear words. Basically, the tarot card implies that there is something amiss in how two lovers deal with each other. For this reason, they do not work in realistic way to make things smoother in the relationship. Probably, they are with each other just for the lust factor, but this might not always be just about sex. The relationship can also be based on money and one of the partners is a gold digger. Now whatever the desire is, the alliance has been created by the two people so they can gratify themselves. Unfortunately, it will only lead them to unhappiness and nothing else.

For feelings, Seven of Cups talks of crush. That is, your love interest likes you, but his feelings have not grown into a true love. But if the question is about casual date then appearance of Seven of Cups in the reading signals that you will have a bright dating scene because of multiple options, but you will feel that you cannot make up your mind about who you want to pick as your partner for a long term relationship.

Reversed Seven of Cups implies an end to going by the moment. The couple is finally thinking practically to make their relationship smoother. But the real direction has not been found yet. For feelings, the reversed Seven of Cups emphasizes making logical judgment. Under such circumstances, your love interest might only like you because of your personality while assuming that outer beauty can deceive. However, if for any reason he has not shown interest in you then it means he does not like you because he does not know you well. Either way, he will not give into lust. He will just go by what is logical. For casual dates, you still have multiple options left, but you will know who among them is best for you.

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Eight of Cups in Love and Relationships

Description: You are going away from a troubled situation.

Interpretations
Eight of Cups is another straightforward tarot card in the Rider Waite tarot deck. It basically says that something is amiss in your relationship and although you feel disappointed about it you are choosing to move away from it. Now this can mean a temporary breakup. Perhaps, you are thinking that you can no longer stand your lover and so breaking up is the best thing to do. But the truth is that you will again renew your relationship with him at a later time. Eight of Cups comes from minor arcana and so it does not have the power of the Death tarot card which sometimes shows a real breakup.

Interestingly, Eight of Cups can be taken as good news for a person who just got out of a relationship, for it signals that he is healing from the situation. Also he is ready to understand as to why things fell apart for him in the past. However for feelings, Eight of Cups is a negative tarot card, for it implies that your love interest simply does not think that you are right for him. So he is going away from you.

Reversed Eight of Cups still tells emphasizes that there are problems in the relationship. But you just cannot understand whether you should get away from them or try to get rid of them. Either way, you are hurting. Things are very sickly for you since you think that if you break up with your lover then you will remain single all your life because no one will ever approach you for a long term relationship. In short, you lack self esteem. This is also tied to the feelings of the love interest. That is, he does like you, but it is just that he does not have a good self esteem which can make him walk up to you.

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Nine of Cups in Love and Relationships

Description: You are satisfied with everything.

Interpretations
Nine of Cups shows a smiling man sitting in relaxed position. Nine cups are behind him. For love and relationship situations, this heralds satisfaction. You basically have no issues with your lover and you just like the way your relationship is going. Feeling wise, Nine of Cups tarot card heralds happiness and admiration. Yes, your love interest likes you, but he is not making a move on you because he wants you to take the first step. It is good to see this card in a yes or no reading because it usually means a big yes!

Reversed Nine of Cups tarot card is negative. It implies that issues and even insecurity in the relationship are beginning to surface and you are just sad about it. However, since Nine of Cups is from minor arcane even in reversed position it tells you that everything is fixable. So gather your strength and head to your lover to remove the negativity from your relationship.

Now in some readings I did in the past, Nine of Cups reversed pointed out alcoholism in one of the lovers. That is, one of them was drinking a lot. So when this tarot card appears in reversed position concentrate on how much your lover drinks, for too much alcoholism can at one point affect your relationship with him.

For feelings also Nine of Cups reversed is not a good sign, for it heralds that your love interest thinks he is too handsome and thus he can easily find someone far better than you.

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Ten of Cups in Love and Relationships

Description:
Happiness cannot get better than this.

Interpretations
Ten of Cups talks of great happiness. The power of love and romance embellishes the relationship. The feeling of togetherness is also strong. However, Ten of Cups does not completely herald a committed relationship. So if you are just seeing someone then the tarot card says that you will feel strongly for each other. But the decision about the next level of the relationship will not be made anytime soon.

Another meaning of this card is a date that will be successful. The two people will go to a place where they will forget about all the pain in the world and enjoy with each other like there is no tomorrow.

Ten of cups also represents chasing of what the couple will never get. As we know, rainbow is not ever lasting. A good example of this is friends with benefits. The two people might simply be sharing what we may call as free love.

Feeling wise, Ten of Cups implies that your love interest has fallen for you. As a matter of fact, you are the only one who makes him extremely happy in his life.

Reversed Ten of Cups signals arrogance in the relationship. The happiness can easily be achieved, but you two just cannot see anything eye to eye due to selfish reasons. In short, the imbalance is destroying the relationship. Same can be told for casual dates. You are out of luck. That is why, you are seeing that your dates are not compatible with you. As for feelings, they are intentionally killed by your love interest because he has trouble imagining a happy future with any girls at all.

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Knight Of Cups In Love And Relationships

Description: A romantic time at your door step.

Interpretations
Knights of Cups represents a trip filled with love and joy. Similarly, in relationship situations, this tarot card implies that the two lovers are on a romantic journey. Now this can be an actual trip or purely psychological. Either way, there is a potential for the love and romance to blossom.

But for questions related to a casual dates, the Knight of Cups signals new possibilities opening. Perhaps, someone has really liked you and he has a plan to ask you to become his girlfriend. Good news is that if you say yes to him you will actually have the best time of your life with him. Yet it must be noted that this tarot card does not have anything to do with solid commitment which must be there in order for a relationship to become official.

Feeling wise, Knight of Cups talks of romantic love. Your love interest is really falling in love with you and thus he often finds himself drowning in fantasy about you. But this does not always mean that he is having the urge to contact you. Well, it is possible only if the two of you are in a real relationship.

In reversed position, Knight of Cups represents a deception. The relationship is getting rusted because one of the lovers is adulterous or fake. Forget about the trip. It is not going to happen. Instead more boredom in the relationship will be felt. For casual dates, the tarot card talks of bad luck. The dates are dishonest. They have no wish to be in a long term relationship. As a matter of fact, they are dating just for some one night stands. For feelings, Knight of Cups talks of shallowness. Yes, it is possible that your love interest still likes you, but he is not using much time to think whether you can be the one for him.

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Page of Cups in Love and Relationships

Description: You are feeling a verbal or intuitively received soft information.

Interpretations
Page of Cups is a tarot card that asks us to look into small information that we receive from others around us and use it to understand our own situations. In relationship situations, Page of Cups signals that the two lovers can communicate very easily with each other because they are either tolerant people or they just have common interests.

A negotiation becoming romantic can also be a signal of Page of Cups. There is a bit of childishness in both the partners. There is nothing wrong with it. They simply are ready to kiss and make up. That is why, many tarot readers consider the card to be a sign of new beginnings. However, page is neither a king nor person from major arcana. So his effect is usually short lived. As mentioned before, he shows the childishness in partners. What this means is that their relationship might not be healthy and has little impact in creating a better future. But they do not care about this. They just want to live the moment that has helped them to stop the differences from causing a real breakup.

Feeling wise, Page of Cups implies tenderness. Yes, your love interest does feel that you are a nice person and because of this he might even talk to you routinely. There is a possibility for him to even ask you out, but that can be figured out by looking at the other cards you have in your reading.

Reversed Page of Cups tarot card can imply that the relationship is full of childish tantrums because one of the lovers now takes things to personally and this makes him very intolerant. This also makes the communication in the relationship difficult. As for feelings, they have turned neutral. Your love interest simply does not understand you and thus he does not see a reason to admire you at all.

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Queen of Cups in Love and Relationship

Description: You are swayed by emotions.

Interpretations
Queen of Cups reflects feelings related to love and fairness. So for a relationship situation, the tarot card represents beautiful balance between the lovers. They are just very much in love with each other and their bond is soft, yet strong.

However, since Queen of Cups is ruled by the water signs, she can also be clairvoyant and insightful in nature. That is why, when you get this tarot card in your reading you have to be careful in how you interpret it. I actually received Queen of Cups as outcome in a relationship reading for a woman who was planning to renew everything with her ex boyfriend. The man was gone and never contacted her again, but one of her friends kept encouraging her to chase him by saying that he was still single because he had feelings for her. In this situation, the Queen of Cups represented her own emotions and not her relationship with the man. It basically implied that she was going to finally understand how it would be impossible for her to get him back and that her friend was not telling her the truth. It was all supposed to come to her intuitively. Interestingly, some weeks later when she contacted me she described that one night before going to bed she was getting the feeling that something was amiss. She began to feel suspicious about her friend and so she ended up calling her ex to know his attitude about their relationship. The result was not good. He rudely told her that he already settled down with someone else and also urged her not to call him ever again. So what do you think happened here? The Queen of Cups was signaling her that her friend wanted her to get insulted by her ex boyfriend. So remember, this tarot card might just ask you to pay attention to information that your sixth sense provides you about your relationship or about others.

Now if you get Queen of Cups in a reading related to the question of how your love interest feels about you then consider yourself lucky and victorious. Yes, you have got him! Apparently, he is in love with you because of your beautiful qualities. Also he would love to have you as his girlfriend.

Reversed Queen of Cups is the bearer of bad news, for it now emphasizes, “It is me and not us”. In other words, there is a rift in the relationship. The two lovers do not like to share everything with each other because they like to maintain their respective independence. But the truth is something else. They are using each other for sex or for any other personal gain and because of this, one of them is actually suffering. Additionally, they are not interested in thinking about the future of the relationship.

Lastly, reversed Queen of Cups can significantly represent you in a reading done regarding your love interest. Here again, the news is not very good. He basically feels that you are a drama queen both at home and in public.

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King of Cups in Love and Relationship

Description: You are experiencing a diplomatic moment.

Interpretations
King of Cups represents a neutral or positive point of view. Similarly, in relationship, it signals a peaceful time for the two lovers. In other words, they know how to solve relationship issues easily with each other and because of this, no argument takes place between them. Overall, King of Cups in upright position is a good card to get in a relationship reading.

If the question is related to a specific date or love interest then the appearance of King of Cups signals that his feelings towards you is neutral. He basically has no desire to be more than a friend to you and that is why, he chooses not to talk to you about a long term relationship. Good news is that this man does not play games. So when you will call him he will talk to you politely like a true friend.

Now if you are a man who has got a King of Cups in the reading as an answer to the question of whether a specific woman likes you then there is good news for you, for the tarot card signals that she has really fallen in love with you. It is just that you have impressed her greatly with your personality and because of this, she feels that you are too special. She also has a desire to see you as her boyfriend.

In reversed position, King of Cups tells of people running away from problems. Same is true in relationship situations. There are many issues in the relationship, but the two lovers are choosing to not do anything about them. As a matter of fact, every time a confrontation moment comes, one of the lovers goes into hiding or tries to change the topic with the hope to avoid anything too fatal.

Feeling wise, reversed King of Cups signals that you have been noticed by your love interest. However, he has not used a good amount of time to realize whether he likes you or not. Now in a man’s reading reversed King of Cups implies that he has been seen as untrustworthy by his love interest.

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